Saturday, November 24, 2012

Switzerland

Pictures can never do justice to the beauty of Switzerland.     It was totally awesome and not only the natural beauty of the landscape, but everything is so neat and clean.     It seemed that everyone had enormous pride in their homes, yards and even streets and roads.     We never saw a piece of trash on any highway.
Our first stop was Lake Geneva and we stayed in a delightful place right on the lake.    We drove from there to Interlaken and stayed a couple of days in this delightful spot, taking a drive around that lake the first day.


The following day was a real adventure.     We decided to go the top of Schiltorn (I believe either the second or third highest peak in the area).     For any of you that are James Bond fans, one of the earliest movies with Sean Connery was partly filmed on top of Schiltorn, I think it was called something like "On Her Majesty's Secret Service".     You might recognize it from the brochure picture following, what you see was blown up in the movie.

In order to get to the top, one had to take a series of cable cars.     The first leg took you to 4,000 to the village of Gimmelwald.
The next leg went to Murken (pictured above) at 5,500 feet, then another cable car to 9,000 feet Berg, and a fourth leg to the summit of 10,000 Shilthorn.
The views were beyond belief and I wish I could have enjoyed them more than I did.     I have to be honest and tell you that I have a height problem, and on top of that am terrified of things like Cable Cars.     I clung to a pole in the center of each car and was barely able to look straight out at the surrounding mountains.    All the other brave people were up against the windows taking it all in!

Once at the top, I was able to take it all in.     I spent probably an hour or more just walking around, watching the skiers take off from that height and head down the hills and generally enjoyed the whole experience.     There was a small, but interesting, museum up there and a coffee house.     Unfortunately, it was here that we realized for the first time that Dick had a problem.     He just couldn't take the altitude, and was not able to walk around and see anything, spending his whole time just sitting at a table and waiting for me.
It was hard to leave Switzerland, I would love to go back and see a lot more of this gorgeous country, but time and money was running out, so we left and headed towards Germany........

 

Sunday, November 18, 2012

1991

1991 was an incredibly exciting year, the highlight of which was our 25th anniversary.     To celebrate it, we went to Europe for a two week visit, doing it our way, instead of the usual organized tours.     All together we visited seven countries, dealt with a variety of languages and currencies and had a wonderful time.

We flew into Munich, Germany, rented a car and drove to Salzburg, Austria the first day.    We had made very few reservations for this trip and made the decision to find 'out of town' locations when possible and 'non-American-oriented'.        We found a delightful inn just outside Salzburg with help that could speak a little English.    Breakfast the next morning suited me - basketful of a wonderful assortment of breads and crusty rolls, served with plenty of butter and a variety of jams and jellies, and an assortment of cheeses.     This was the daily breakfast fare for the rest of the trip, which wasn't actually the favorite for Dick, who kept thinking longingly of bacon and eggs!   

We spent a delightful day in Salzburg,  hiring a horse and carriage to take us around the city, visiting the first of many magnificent cathedrals and eating in local restaurants.     I have a fair knowledge of French and it came in handy on this trip when it came to looking at menus.     The French, German and Italian words for things like beef, pork, chicken, fish, etc. all have enough similarities that knowing the French word made it possible for me to recognize it on the German and Italian menus.     That was about the extent of the help though as we never knew how the particular dish was going to be prepared, with the result we ate some great meals, and a few not so great.     Since I did not drink wine, and Dick didn't like it very much, we ordered water with most meals.     It was always bottled water and we had to make it clear whether we wanted it 'with gas' or 'no gas'.     With my limited language knowledge, we didn't always get what we wanted.     Dick actually spent much of his time sitting on benches or outside cafes while I toured the various sights.     I went to where Mozart was born and loved that.

The next day we set off south for Northern Italy, driving through the Austrian Alps.     I used to joke that one literally drove THROUGH the Alps, for once one reached a certain altitude the autobahn leveled off and you spent most of your time driving through immense tunnels, coming into the daylight and having a brief view of some scenery (usually from a high bridge) before you entered the next tunnel.     What we did see was magnificent, but I would have preferred to have seen the countryside more and the inside of a tunnel less.     We did pass the small village of Arnsdorf where 'Silent Night' was composed.

We stopped that night in a small 'motel' a few miles outside Venice.  

The next day was spent touring Venice.     I had done some reading on traveling before we left and followed the advise of some by not doing the conventional things which ended up costing a fortune, but doing things the way a local would.     Case in point, was Venice.     Instead of hiring someone to take us through the canals, we boarded the public transport (with a day pass) and traveled throughout Venice, getting on and off as we saw things we wanted to see closer.
I had heard that Venice would not be a good experience, people complaining about smells, refuse, etc. but we didn't find it this way.     It might have had something to do with traveling in April before the crowds and heat came, but to me it was a magical experience.     I toured the Doge's Palace while Dick watched the people go by.   The wealth and magnificence of these cathedrals and palaces are beyond belief.     Growing up in Britain, I was used to visiting VERY old buildings, but obviously Britain did not have the wealth of Europe.
From Venice, we drove west across Northern Italy to Milan.     This was the one time we had a reservation and stayed two nights in a small hotel in downtown Milan.    I had done this as I understood that hotels in Milan were incredibly expensive and I had found this one which was more reasonable.    The big shock came when we found that it had no parking area, and parking was not allowed on the street.    We were required to park the car in a nearby parking facility which ended up costing almost as much as our room.     We found things incredibly expensive in Italy, and were thankful to the advice given us by Danielle who had visited us last year.     She had explained the difference in how restaurants were referred.    There were four levels of restaurants and as she said, the top two were for the rich tourists, the third was for the wealthy locals and the last, known as Pizzerias, were where the locals ate.     So that's where we ate.     It was still pretty amazing to have to pay $5 for a coke though!!


Highlight of my touring the next day was El Duomo - the Cathedral of Milan.    All of Milan is designed to 'radiate' from the cathedral (rather like the layout of Salt Lake City and its Mormon Temple).    

Before leaving Milan the next morning I fulfilled a long time ambition to visit the church where the "Last Supper" was painted on its inside wall.    It was being renovated when I was there so it was somewhat spoiled with scaffolding in one area, but nevertheless I stood in awe taking it all in (including the door that had been cut into the lower center) and crying.     We continued west leaving Italy and driving into France.     Another shocker on this trip (money wise) was the cost to drive on the Autobahn (and its equivalent names in Italy and France).     The tolls (which pop up frequently along the way) were quite high, and we figured it was costing us as much for the tolls as it was for the gas!     The lack of speed limits was a culture shock too - amazing to have cars literally zoom past us as were doing 80mph.

We drove along the Mediterranean coast, a quick visit to the Principality of Monaco, and continued on stopping in Nice.     As Dick said, Nice was nice.     It reminded me of Llandudno where I grew up with its Victorian old charm, lovely gardens and of course the Sea air.
We had an experience at the motel here which might be difficult to explain, but we parked on the water side of the motel and went into the lobby to register.     It was quite a tall motel but we did notice that it had an elevator, so weren't concerned.    There appeared to be two check-in places, so I went to one of them and they spoke English so I requested that we would be no higher than the second floor.    This was no problem, so we checked in and paid for the night.     Two surprizes followed!     First, this was actually TWO hotels, one on top of the other.     One could access the ground floor of the upper one from the street behind but not by car.     We had the second floor alright, on the 'top' hotel.
Second shock came when we found that the elevator didn't work!!!    We got our exercise in during that stay, especially lugging our luggage up and down. 

The next day we left the coast and started north driving through the Rhone Valley of France - its main agricultural valley.     The fields of mustard (drove past Dijon) were in full bloom, and we of course were really interested in seeing the vast acreage of vineyards.

We ended up in Lyons and stayed in a small hotel just outside the city for a couple of nights, touring the ancient city the next day.     There is an old Roman ampitheater there and having heard about how great the acoustics were in these arenas, I walked down to the bottom and spoke in a normal voice and Dick heard every word clearly at the top.

Leaving Lyons, we turned east and headed towards Switzerland, but took a side trip along the way to one of the oldest existing villages in Europe called Perouges.    It is still inhabited and the locals have to park outside the town and walk into their homes.     It dates back to the early 13th century and it was fascinating to walk its streets.   I have a vivid imagination on visits like this.     Loving history as much as I do and having read so much about the various times, it was easy for me to envision what this must have been like in those times.
We continued on that day and ended up in Montreaux, Switzerland on Lake Geneva.     Our Swiss experience deserves a blog of its own, so I'll continue later.....................

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

1990

Overall, 1990 was a fun year with a wedding in our back yard, another visitor from Britain and my trip with them, and then Irene spending the Christmas holidays with us.     But before that, we had the sad happening at the start of the year in losing my brother Gordon.
This photo was taken a couple of months before his death when Dick and I went up to Duncan on Victoria Island, BC, Canada.    

I often share with people who are going through a bad time that it helps me to compare it to the worst thing I ever experienced.     If it doesn't stack up to that, then it's not such a big deal and I got through the worst one, so can get through this one.     I point out that everyone has that one time in their life that is their worst.     Mine was the last week I spent with Gordon in May of this year helping Irene before he died.     He was dying of colon cancer that had spread and he weighed less than 50lb.    No time in my life since then has compared in the enormity of the emotions I shared with Irene.

But to better times.    

We gussied up our back yard with flowers and an arch for Becky's wedding.

She was a beautiful bride.     Unfortunately the marriage didn't last, but from that marriage we have our first great-grandchild in Jessica.

My nephew Ian and his girl friend Danielle visited us and I took a trip up to Canada with them

Danielle was born in Milan, Italy and even though I think she enjoyed her trip overall, I do believe she was disappointed in our San Joaquine Valley - I learned later that she thought all of California would look like the Santa Monica beach!

It was Irene's first Christmas without Gordon so we persuaded her to spend it with us.     We had a good time and this photo is of myself, Irene and Louise all dressed up to go somewhere.     The funny thing is that I haven't a clue where we went!!!


This last photo was taken around the same time, and a favortie of mine.   It really shows the size of Duke!    That's Lady with them and you can see Lena on the back of the chair.

Thursday, November 8, 2012

1989 continued

While we were in Florida with the TCP program, I did get to take a couple of trips.     One back to California where my sister-in-law Kitty had come in from England.     I had a great few days with her showing off my favorite California places, including Santa Barbara:
and San Francisco


I also made a flying visit to England to attend my niece's wedding.     That was an experience - I arrived in London and was met by my nephew Ian who was then going to drive me to Tavistock in Devonshire.   This was on the Thursday.    BUT, no luggage!     We had to continue on to Tavistock, but the airline assured me that I would get the luggage in time for the wedding.     Friday came and went and no luggage, Saturday morning saw me frantically running around the small town of Tavistock trying to find something to wear for the wedding.     By this time I was on my fourth day of wearing a sports outfit!     I had left Florida on the Wednesday, arrived in London on the Thursday and here it was Saturday.     I could find nothing that worked so finally decided I would show up in the only thing I had and try to explain to those who would wonder if this was the wedding outfits people wore in the US!!     But British Airways saved the day and my luggage arrived less than one hour before we had to leave for the church.     It was a lovely wedding and since Sarah married a lieutenant in the Royal Navy, the exit from the church was quite spectacular:

We had a good year farming that year

but had some very sad times too.     
Mom Topper died and even though we had lost her to Altzheimers for a number of years, it was still so sad to say our last goodbyes.     She truly was a good woman who lived her life for her family and for her Lord.

We also lost Buddy and Taffy this year.     Both were heartbreaks.     We had had both since they were very small puppies and Taffy was 17 and Buddy was 15 when we had to lay them to rest under my favorite plant that lined the driveway, and separated it from the vineyard. 

But we did add two more to our family.     Lady (a golden retriever) came by way of Julie, a lady we had hired to take care of our house and animals while we were in Florida.     Lady was abandoned by Julie's daughter and husband and was found raiding garbage cans to eat.     We took her in and adopted her, little knowing that she came with some luggage of her own - very pregnant!    We would have taken her anyway, even if we had known.    


Then Dick arrived home with Duke - a 150 lb. Great Pyrennes.     He apparently had been abandoned in Caruthers and had gone from place to place until Dick looked into his eyes one day, and a bond was made.


Tuesday, November 6, 2012

Part of 1989

1989 was a year like no other we had experienced, before or since.     Late in 1988 we had been invited to a meeting of TCP (The Coin Program), had joined, and unfortunately got carried away with it.     Life was good for us during this time, both the farms and the motels were doing well and once again we were 'in the money' and living very well.     So why the lure to make even more money?    Greed?  Possibly.   Influenced by the persuasive power of Bob Crisp?   Possibly.    Wanting to do good with excessive money?   Possibly.     Probably all was true, although one would prefer to look back and think we did most of it for others!     In order to be fair with ourselves, I do know that most of Dick's and my plans on what to do with the money (the same as it is now if we buy a lottery ticket) is the charities we can support (we even have them listed), and the family, extended family and friends we can help.     Other than a better car, and some trips, not much time is daydreaming about what we would do with the money.

But regardless of the reason, we threw ourselves wholeheartedly into the program and regretfully threw a lot of money along with it.     We became one of the first Gold sellers, and led the team to Florida on what was supposed to be a television blitz of advertising and sales.    
We attended a great get together with TCP in Hawaii, at an amazing resort on the big island.

    I was fortunate to have the chance to swim with the dolphins, an experience I shall never forget. What amazing eyes they have and they make eye contact that seems to reach into your soul.

TCP did not work, and we did lose a lot of money.    And more than the regret of losing our money is the regret that some people who followed us, lost their money too.     But for Dick and I, TCP was not a complete loss, especially for me.     Since I took the 'front' position on the program and did the actual presentations, it did huge things for my confidence.   Both Dick and I lost weight, wanting to look as good as possible and I accumulated a large wardrobe of some lovely clothes.  

As a sidebar of the TCP program, 1989 was a great blow to by confidence in other people though.     Because of our total focus on the program itself, we did not give enough attention to our motels, leaving them in the hands of what we thought were honest and reliable managers.     Unfortunately our manager in Rohnert Park, got hooked on meth, and devised a brilliant way of syphoning money from the motel.     By the time it all came to light, he had gotten to us to the tune of something between $150,000 and $200,000.     It was devastating to me to know how much faith and trust I had in this man, and it didn't make me feel much better when he was sentenced to time in prison.