Sunday, August 26, 2012

1983

1983 was another spectacular year, marred by only one event which I shall cover in my next blog.

Dick was heavily involved with the various vineyards we had and spent many a day travelling back and forth to work on them, or supervise what was going on.     My life was filled with meetings, recovery, genealogy, visitors and golf.     My involvement with genealogy came from Katrina who through her marriage to Lynn and her joining the Mormom Church, wanted to trace at least five generations of both her parents and their new spouses.    She felt she could handle doing her mother Sue's history and Bill Ripley her step father, but enlisted my help in doing Dick's and mine.     Ironically with her divorce from Lynn and leaving the church, her interest wained, but I was hooked for life!     I had always loved history and was an avid reader of both British and American history (got hooked on the latter when I read Gone with the Wind for the first time at age eight).    It wasn't long before I really Dick's background was seeped in American history and covered it seems every facet of it, from the first developments in Virginia and subsequently the Mayflower followed by the Puritans, through the Revolutionary War, Civil War, the migration West, the Oklahoma Land Rush and to the "Okies migraton to California".     Sad to say, I started with the same enthusiasm on my own family but gradually grew bored as generation after generation never moved more than a couple of miles in the quiet rural areas of North Wales.

We had two long visits - a month each.     The first being my cousin Audrey and husband Derek from Wales and the second the daughter of Gwyn and Oscar who came the prior year, who came shortly after their marriage.     Both meant a lot of traveling around California showing off our wonderful State and Louise, who by that time had come to live with us, took some of the trips with us.    

Louise came accompanied by a huge, ginger cat named Sam who adapted to life with us and Buddy and Taffy with ease.     I grew to love Sam as a big part of our family.




Dick and I both played a lot of Golf at the local course and unbelievably I won the Ladies Championship.     Have to say the competition wasn't very strong.     As the club grew and the other ladies improved, I was never able to hold my title.     We became deeply involved in the local politics, where a big 'war' was going on over future development and water rights.     Dick became the campaign chairman for a slate supporting one position.     The opposition was led by Richard Kiel.     Anyone remember him from the movies?     The seven foot ten inch giant that would show up as a bit player quite often.     We won the election hands down, but unfortunately our 'slate' caved in once in office so we're not sure how much we won.     That sounds familiar in politics doesn't it?

One thing we were very proud of that year was the establishment of a Christmas program called Santa's Helpers.     It was a ball, restricted to 100 people which raised funds to provide a good Christmas for needy local families.     This program continued for a number of years after we left YLP.    We don't know if it is still going.
Dick, Katrina and I at the first ball.    What do you think of Dick's curly 'do' - all the rage at that time.

Dick and I took a short visit to the Midwest visiting with some old friends and attending Debbie's first wedding to Bob Novak.     We would also go up to Sacramento periodically to visit with Mom and family up there.     Thanksgiving was special that year, when Hazel, Bill, Dick, Louise and Jerry were altogether - something that happened rarely.     There was usually one of them missing for one reason or another.

Christmas was spent at our house - can't remember how many were there, but it was a big crowd, with Bill and Frances' family, Louise's family and our family.

Friday, August 17, 2012

Back to "Blogsland"





It's been ten months since my surgery forced me to stop blogging, and for one reason and another I have found it difficult to get back into the groove.     But I decided that the time was right, and read through our last blogs to see where I was on our journey together.
It was 1981 and we had moved from the vineyard in Selma to Yosemite Lakes Park and I had started my road to recovery.
1982 has to go down as one of those Great years.     No financial worries.     A beautiful home.     Making a ton of new friends.     Plenty of time to play golf and enjoy having Gordon and Irene living close.    
We had the first of many visits from my British relatives - my cousin Gwyneth and husband Oscar came from Greater Manchester, England and stayed a month.     Dick was involved with running the ranches, so I acted as tour guide with great visits to the Big Trees, Yosemite, Napa Valley, San Francisco, all up and down the coast and one great trip with Gordon and Irene along to Lake Tahoe where we rented a cabin for a few days.   We took Suzanne, Becky and Marie to the Clovis Rodeo - do you guys remember that?
We had Christmas at our house on the hill and it's lovely to look at the photos and see Bill and Frances and their family, Louise and her family and our family of six great grandkids.
There were no AA meetings close so I would go down into Fresno for my meetings.     But I decided to start a group at Yosemite Lakes, and posted notices around the Park.     I sat with my pot of coffee, and the "Big Book" waiting for comers.    Nobody the first week, one lady the second and one man the third.     It was suggested that people might not be comfortable coming to a home, so I approached the management and they allowed me the use of the little pro shop one night a week.     By the time we left Yosemite Lakes Park, we had a solid group of about a dozen people.    
We all end up with some major accomplishments in our lives - this stands as the highlight of mine.